You only live once. I created the blog category, YOLO, to capture my family’s travel adventures. This post might not fit the bill as it’s about a cruise I embarked on SOLO (or without the family), but it’s story worthy nonetheless.
I admit to being a bit enamored with the idea of a cruise, but never quite enough to pull the trigger and book one. In November, due to the wellness business I’m building, I was invited to join my team on what’s called a Peak Performers Cruise (hashtag that). I thought about it for a half a sec and went for it. What could be better than working out daily on a cruise ship in the sun on the seas, visiting Cozumel and Grand Cayman and connecting with people impassioned by the same mindset and goals?
I could check “cruise” off of my bucket list if it was ever really on it, I reasoned. I could write some of it off as a business expense. I was most definite I could use a warm winter getaway from Minnesota. I pushed down the memories from other rocky journeys at sea, seeking whales off the San Diego coast and riding the water taxi to and from the island of Stromboli off the coast of Sicily. These ventures never made me queasy. It was more like the anxiety of what could happen at sea, inflicted by watching movies like Jaws and The Titanic.
The anticipation of relaxation and exploration overrode those feelings and I was focused on the positive in the months leading up to trip. Our team (Amanda, Karry, Jen) flew into Fort Meyers on Sunday, February 7, the day of the Royal Caribbean’s Anthem of the Seas’ #royalincident. On the two-hour drive up to Tampa to board our cruise ship our friend and driver asked if we had heard what had happened on the Anthem. I tuned it out as much as possible. In fact the Royal WiFi throughout the cruise was sometimes spotty and slow and shared among our team and our multiple devices, made weather and news feeds less accessible.
In hindsight, that was a very good thing. I chalked it up to a storm at sea near the Bahamas that got a little wavy, oblivious of the real magnitude of the event. The first night at sea, Monday, February 8, was unsettling for me. The ship was riding the waves and rocking us side to side like we were on the Avatar ride at Nickelodeon Universe, heightening our tilt degree with each wave crescendo. Everything creaked and groaned, the hangers clanged together. My senses were on high alert.
I don’t think any of us slept a wink and maybe drifted off to a light rest for an hour before dawn. I was overjoyed to see the sunrise. Today, Tuesday, would be a new day. The ship swayed and put everyone’s agility, balance and grace to the test. Don’t fill your coffee mug more than 3/4ths full to prevent scalding your hand. Don’t look down for too long – focus your gaze on the horizon or something steady in the distance to walk gracefully without looking completely intoxicated. …I feel a top 10 Cruise Tips List coming on here…
I inquired on several things as I gathered research to ease my anxiety: Is this your first cruise? If so, how did last night’s waviness compare? Were you queasy? If so, did you take anything (numerous responses here from Dramamine to patches on pressure points behind the ears and wrists)? Do you know the captain? Will he ever come on a give us passengers a comforting message about what is happening?
When the sun came out, I relaxed and was able to enjoy being on this massive, luxurious vessel. We hit the spa and fitness center every day. I had to earn my three royal meals after all. The food and beverages were never in shortage and dining at 6:00 was a main event. Most days, I ran on the treadmill. Running on it while swaying major degrees side to side was a challenge. The message, “Placing your hands on the sensors (i.e. bar handles) is not recommended,” kept popping up, but yet I held firm. My fellow treadmillers and I laughed at the slight insanity of it.
In more calorie-burning fun, we packed the dance floor at the top level of the ship in the StarQuest and danced to our heart’s content. I mean, why not have intoxicated people dancing, spilling drinks, standing on a moving platform surrounding the bar at the top-most level of the ship where it’s the least fulcrum-friendly? By the third night of this, the journey started to feel a little like the February 2 Groundhog’s Day we just came off of. Between the electric slide and the the wobble and all of the randomness, the cruise was starting to feel like a never-ending wedding.
Honestly, I don’t mean to sound negative. I was mostly just fascinated with cruise culture and how people (including me and our team) behave in this environment. A few things that struck me:
1. Everyone seemed to fully trust the captain (even after Anthem’s captain made a decision in complete disregard for 6,000 people’s lives, in my opinion). No one seemed concerned that when we departed Grand Cayman on Thursday, we knew we were heading into tumultuous waters (which turned out, really, to be only slight waviness compared to Monday night).
2. On day one, we were quite full after each meal and keeping things in check; by day five, our eating and ordering (up to four desserts at one meal) was insanely out of whack.
3. One of the main advantages touted with cruises — exploring new lands to get a taste of them, like the day trips we took to Cozumel (Weds) and Grand Cayman (Thurs) — really didn’t allow enough time to do them any justice. Although I will say being on land was a beautiful thing in and of itself.
On the upswing, I gathered a lot of reassurance from my fellow cruisers. Tammara said to me in her sweet way, “Think of it as a little city gliding along the water.” Brilliant! I’m going with that. Unique to our cruise experience was the company commonness that brought all of us together. We were all there on a journey intended to relax, reward and inspire us to new personal heights in our wellness business. I so enjoyed striking up conversations with people anywhere I went, learning about their business and gaining new insight.
Today, on solid ground in Minnesota, I have new perspective that I’m grateful for courtesy of this experience. From a business viewpoint, I’m ready to expand on Empowering All — find us on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter — and help others on their road to wellness. From a personal perspective, I don’t believe I’ll be eager to set sail on a cruise anytime soon unless it’s a 99% chance of sunny skies and smooth waters.